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In spite of soul being part of Blissful Brahman, why does one experience unhappiness?
Causes of happiness and unhappiness
1. According to psychology
·
A. Restlessness (no peace of mind): ‘अशांतस्य कुत: सुखम् ।’
means how will a restless soul find happiness?
·
B. ‘Worrying nature’ as a defect in personality:
The following example illustrates how a person with a worrying nature can
become unhappy even after knowing the prediction of future happiness. A woman
was worried about the future of her 15 year old son and 11 year old daughter.
In order to get rid of her anxiety, she was told that her son’s life would be
thrice and her daughter’s twice as happy as an average person and that they
would be educated abroad, would be well-off, the daughter’s in-laws would be
good, etc. After she was told all this she felt better for a short while, but
soon became depressed. When she was asked the reason for feeling sad she
replied, “I do not have to do anything for my children. They are going to be
happy by their own destiny, thus I will not get the satisfaction of doing
something for my children and shaping their lives. Because of this feeling I
have developed this void within me and am feeling very sad.”
·
C. Many a times there occurs a conflict among the
tongue, mind and intellect, whether to eat a tasty dish or not and consequently
psychological stress is generated. If there is a harmonious co-ordination
between the body, sense organs, mind, intellect and the soul then one will
enjoy good health and happiness. However if this is not so, it will result in
illness and unhappiness.
·
D. सर्वं परवशं दु:खं सर्वमात्मवशं सुखम् । - मनुस्मृति
Implied meaning: Dependence itself is
unhappiness and independence is happiness. But independence does not mean
immorality or promiscuity. That is not independence but dependence on the sense
organs. - Manusmruti
·
E. ‘The educational system commenced by the
British in India destroyed the loyalty to Righteousness
(Dharma) and
increased the desire for wealth. This led to the development of the purpose of
education to earn wealth. The concept generated from education, that knowledge
(Sarasvati) and wealth (Lakshmi) are the by-products of following Righteousness became extinct. Our culture (sanskruti) says that
happiness in this world, the subtle regions and that of Final Liberation (Moksha) are dependent on
following Righteousness. Contrary to this, due to the Western concept that
“happiness depends on wealth”, man became eager to acquire happiness.
Consequently, the physical sciences made vast progress and thus man was further
attracted to object pleasure. Immorality became rampant in the West. Today,
there is nowhere more immorality and unhappiness than in the U.S.A. which is
famous for its riches’. -
H.H. Kane Maharaj, Narayangaon, Pune district, Maharashtra
2. According to the science of Spirituality
Unrighteousness induces unhappiness.अधर्म एव मूलं सर्व रोगाणाम् ।
Meaning: The origin of an ailment, that is unhappiness lies in behaving unrighteously.
सुखं न विना धर्मात् तस्मात् धर्मपरो भवेत् ।
- वाग्भटकृत अष्टांगहृदय, सूत्रस्थान २:१९
Meaning: Without following Righteousness (Dharma) one cannot experience happiness (and Bliss); hence each one should follow it. - Ashtanghruday by Vagbhat, Sutrasthan 2:19
2.1 According to the Path of Devotion (Bhaktiyoga)
Devotion unto God is happiness and forgetting Him is unhappiness.2.2 According to the Path of Action (Karmayoga)
A. The Adhyatmaramayan [Ayodhyakand, sarga 6, verse (shloka) 6]: Lakshman tells the boatman named Guha ferrying Rama across the river,सुखस्य दु:खस्य न कोऽपि दाता । परो ददाति इति कुबुद्धिरेषा ।
अहं करोमि इति वृथाभिमान: । स्वकर्मसूत्रै: ग्रथितोऽहि लोक: ।।
Meaning: No one can give one happiness or unhappiness. Only the ignorant feel they have acquired happiness or unhappiness because of someone else. Similarly, thinking that one will achieve happiness or get rid of suffering with one’s own efforts is vanity as finally one is bound by one’s accumulated account and destiny.
B. Wilful actions, destined actions and physical and psychological suffering: Life events occur in two ways - wilful and destined actions.
·
1. Wilful actions: In some incidents,
thoughts, actions and behaviour are totally within one’s control. One uses
one’s mind or intellect and acts accordingly. These are called wilful actions.
In this period of Kaliyug,
35% of all actions are wilful.
·
2. Destined actions: In some incidents,
thoughts, actions and behaviour are beyond one’s control. They occur
automatically. They are called destined actions. Nowadays, they contribute to
65% of all actions.
The
proportion of destined and wilful actions varies with time as follows.
|
First birth
|
Present birth
|
Last birth
|
1.
Destined
actions % |
0
|
65
|
100
(life is like that of a puppet) |
2.
Wilful
actions % |
100
|
35
|
0
|
·
3. Inability to distinguish between wilful and
destined actions: Only when one progresses spiritually and perceives the
subtle dimension beyond the five senses, mind and intellect is one able to
determine whether an action is wilful or destined. Since an average individual
cannot distinguish between the two, he attributes everything to wilful actions.
Due to this inability, instead of blaming someone for an action, it is ideal
for a seeker to observe all events with the stance of a spectator (sakshibhav). The Lord too, inspite
of being omniscient and omnipotent observes almost all events as a spectator.
·
4. Physical suffering due to wilful and destined
actions
a.
Wilful actions: Suppose ‘A’ is warned that water from a particular area is
polluted and needs to be boiled before drinking, yet due to overconfidence
about his physical fitness he says that he can digest all kinds of germs and
drinks that water. If thereafter he develops diarrhoea it can be said to be
self-induced and thus becomes a wilful action.
b.
Destined actions: Now if ‘A’ is destined to get diarrhoea then based on the
principle that intellect operates according to destiny, although otherwise he
is not overconfident about his physical fitness, at that moment, he will
suddenly become overconfident or will not meet someone who will tell him that
that water is polluted and needs to be boiled. Thus he will suffer from
diarrhoea.
·
5. Psychological suffering due to wilful and
destined actions: Marrying an incompatible partner and experiencing
psychological distress may also occur either due to a wilful or a destined
action, just like the above example. Marrying someone without heeding anyone’s
advice is a wilful action whereas consenting to marry an incompatible partner
because of faulty judgement due to destiny, when choosing the partner, is a
destined action.
·
6. Physical and psychological suffering due to
spiritual causes: That which occurs due to destiny is due to spiritual
causes. If due to destiny one accidentally steps across a lime charged with
distressing energy thrown on the roadside, then one may be affected adversely.
At times spiritual, that is events beyond the purview of the intellect occur
due to wilful actions. If one who has no faith in such things proudly ventures
there inspite of being warned that the place is haunted, the distressing energy
there could trouble him.
·
7. The proportion of physical, psychological and
spiritual events occurring on account of wilful and destined actions.
Action
|
Event
|
Total
|
||
Physical
|
Psychological
|
Spiritual
|
||
1.
Willful %
|
0
|
10
|
15
|
35
|
2.
Destined %
|
10
|
55
|
(The other two
are also spiritual) |
65
|
Total %
|
20
|
65
|
15
|
100
|
कालार्थकर्मणाम् योगो हीन मिथ्याति मात्रका ।
सम्यक् योगश्च विज्ञेयो सुखासुखस्य कारणम् ।।
Meaning: ‘The inadequate, wrong and excessive usage of time, sense objects and action (karma) is responsible for generation of unhappiness and their balanced usage, that is proper utilisation yields happiness.’ - H.H. Kane Maharaj, Narayangaon, Pune district, Maharashtra
2.3 According to the Path of Knowledge (Dnyanyoga)
A. Nescience (avidya): The word avidya (अविद्या) is derived from ‘a (अ)’ meaning absence and ‘vidya (विद्या)’ meaning knowledge. It is thus the absence of knowledge. The three qualities of the soul are Absolute Truth (Sat) which is permanent, Absolute Consciousness or Knowledge (Chit) and Bliss (Anand). [How these three qualities are one and the same is given in ‘Science of Spirituality : Chapter 28 - Path of Knowledge (Dnyanyoga)’.] This implies that spiritual knowledge is without a beginning or an end. It is eternal and Blissful. Nescience is the absence of Knowledge, the absence of Absolute Truth, Absolute Consciousness and Bliss. Happiness and unhappiness occur because of nescience.The soul and nescience together constitute the embodied soul. Nescience has nineteen components in all - the five subtle sense organs, the five subtle motor organs, the five vital energies, the mind, the subconscious mind, the intellect and the ego. Since the functions of the components of the subtle body go on continuously, the attention of the embodied soul is drawn to them instead of the soul, that is away from spiritual knowledge to nescience. Consequently though the Blissful Brahman is all pervading yet one experiences happiness or unhappiness. Examples of how happiness or unhappiness is caused when the attention of the embodied soul is drawn to the physical and the subtle body are given below.
·
Physical body: One feels unhappy when
one is physically ill. When walking in the hot sun in summer if one gets a
chance to walk in the shade, one feels happy. One also feels unhappy if one’s
basic needs such as food, clothing and shelter are not fulfilled.
·
Subtle body: It is made up of four
constituents of nescience - the mind, subconscious mind, intellect and ego,
that is the four fold antahkaran
(antahkaran chatushtay)
and the soul. Ego is the feeling that one is separate from The Lord. How
happiness and unhappiness occur because of intellect and impressions of
previous births on the subconscious mind is explained with examples below.
1. Subconscious mind:
o
a. Desire center:
मनसो दु:खमूलं तु स्नेह इत्युपलभ्यते ।। - महाभारत ३.२.२७
Meaning: It is found that attachment alone is the main cause for unhappiness. - Mahabharat 3.2.27.
Since for several births one is habituated to object pleasure, no matter how much one studies Spirituality, due to the attitude and firm belief that object pleasure means happiness, it becomes very difficult to divert the mind from objects. One is used to keeping the mind steady in objects, so if one attempts to divert one’s mind from objects temporarily even for a moment, one is aggrieved. This is because the mind feels at rest with object pleasure and an effort is being made to keep the mind away from it. In this context Samarth Ramdas Swami has said, ‘The embodied soul becomes restless in the absence of objects’. The unfulfillment of desires, wishes, ambitions, expectations, the desire to live (pranaishana), to have a son (putraishana), to have sex (kamaishana), to be righteous (Dharmaishana), to attain the Final Liberation (Mokshaishana) is unhappiness. When one acquires happiness due to the fulfillment of some desire a faulty impression that ‘fulfillment of desire is happiness’ gets reinforced in the desire and instinct centre and then the individual tends to drift away from Bliss.
मनसो दु:खमूलं तु स्नेह इत्युपलभ्यते ।। - महाभारत ३.२.२७
Meaning: It is found that attachment alone is the main cause for unhappiness. - Mahabharat 3.2.27.
Since for several births one is habituated to object pleasure, no matter how much one studies Spirituality, due to the attitude and firm belief that object pleasure means happiness, it becomes very difficult to divert the mind from objects. One is used to keeping the mind steady in objects, so if one attempts to divert one’s mind from objects temporarily even for a moment, one is aggrieved. This is because the mind feels at rest with object pleasure and an effort is being made to keep the mind away from it. In this context Samarth Ramdas Swami has said, ‘The embodied soul becomes restless in the absence of objects’. The unfulfillment of desires, wishes, ambitions, expectations, the desire to live (pranaishana), to have a son (putraishana), to have sex (kamaishana), to be righteous (Dharmaishana), to attain the Final Liberation (Mokshaishana) is unhappiness. When one acquires happiness due to the fulfillment of some desire a faulty impression that ‘fulfillment of desire is happiness’ gets reinforced in the desire and instinct centre and then the individual tends to drift away from Bliss.
o
b. Like and dislike centre: When a favourable event
occurs one feels happy and when something which is disliked occurs one feels
unhappy.
o
c. Temperamental characteristic centre: Unhappiness is
experienced due to defects in personality and happiness due to qualities.
o
d. Talents centre: When achieving
expertise in art, sports, etc. one experiences happiness; if not it results in
unhappiness.
o
e. Give and take account centre: This contains the
accumulated account and the list of destined actions. One has to experience the
unhappiness that is accounted for in this centre.
2. Intellect: When one’s curiosity is satisfied there is
happiness. If not, there is unhappiness. One who does not even realise that he
does not know anything experiences happiness even in that ignorance and one who
realises it feels unhappy.
3. Ego: Basically all unhappiness stems from
considering oneself as distinct from The Blissful Lord. One experiences
happiness and unhappiness due to attachment. If one breaks off the bondage of
attachment, then one does not experience happiness and unhappiness.
B.
Desire for happiness itself is the cause for unhappiness: ‘The Lord’s nature
itself is one of Bliss. Therefore it is but natural that the creation which has
originated from Him will be Blissful. Just as it is not possible for an
ornament made from gold to appear as that of iron. In the holy text, Ganapati Atharvashirsha it is
said that all living beings originate from the singular Bliss, sustain on it
and finally blend into that Bliss. Yet one experiences unhappiness in the
creation. The cause of experiencing this unhappiness is termed by philosophers
as an illusion, ignorance, the Great Illusion (Maya) etc. all of which are synonymous.No one feels that ‘he should be unhappy’. Everyone ‘desires happiness’. This feeling is generated as one’s basic nature is that of happiness. If our basic nature was unhappiness then would one not have felt that ‘one should be unhappy’? When one’s basic nature is of happiness having a desire to be happy itself is ignorance. This itself is the beginning of unhappiness. When the desire to be happy ends, that is where happiness lies. When this state is achieved then one has no reason left to be unhappy. This is the state of saints. Righteousness (Dharma) is meant for us to be released from the ignorance of happiness and unhappiness. - H.H. Kane Maharaj, Narayangaon, Pune district, Maharashtra
C. Expectation and attainment of happiness: When attainment is less than the expectation, there is unhappiness. However when it is equivalent to or more than the expectation, there is happiness.
·
1. Just as electric current yielding both hot and
cold water is the same, so also is the happiness or unhappiness that
individuals experience from God, due to varying constitutions.
·
2. Just as images of objects get distorted with
the use of concave and convex lenses, so also due to desires and instincts,
likes and dislikes, temperamental characteristics, sins and merits, the
proportion of the three components, the five cosmic elements, etc. Brahman instead of being
experienced in Its form is experienced as the Great Illusion (Maya) and consequently there
is happiness or unhappiness.
·
3. When a student who has fared excellently in an
examination goes out to distribute sweets to his well-wishers wearing a new but
tight shirt, instead of feeling happy about his success, his mind gets diverted
to the tight shirt. The same occurs with the embodied soul and instead of the
inner Bliss its attention gets focused on happiness and unhappiness due to the
covering of nescience.
·
4. A person in bondage is unable to eat, even if
food is placed in front of him. Thus he remains hungry. Similarly, a person in
bondage is unable to quench his thirst even if a river is flowing ahead of him
and remains thirsty. An individual is deprived of the Bliss within him due to
the bondage of nescience. This point will become clearer from the following
example.
‘Once
a person built a palace of mirrors and kept a beautiful blooming rose at its
centre. The mirrors enhanced the beauty of the rose. Then he set a pigeon free
in the palace. Seeing the numerous reflections of the rose, the pigeon started
swooping onto them and began pecking at each mirror. Finally exhausted with the
fluttering about, it collapsed and landed straight on the rose. Now that it had
got what it wanted, it was satisfied. Man’s state too is the same. Although
“happiness is within”, he keeps on searching for it in the enchanting mirage of
external objects.’ (1)
D.
Three components (trigun) and happiness and
unhappiness:
The three components sattva,
raja and tama are from the Great
Illusion (Prakruti).
The sattva
component imparts happiness; hence as the human mind becomes more and more sattva predominant, the
creation too becomes proportionately happy and as the sattva predominance declines
and is replaced by predominance of raja
and tama
components, proportionately the creation becomes unhappy. As the sattva component increases,
love for others increases and consequently an attitude of sacrifice develops.
Due to this attitude of sacrifice, one’s attitude becomes expansive day by day
and one learns the art of blending with the unhappiness of others. This art
itself is active compassion.E. A resolve and happiness and unhappiness: The creation, sustenance and dissolution of the universe depend on a resolve. Then is all the suffering of the entire creation due to a resolve? How is this possible? Because each one makes a resolve for happiness and not sorrow. Then why do we experience unhappiness when we make a resolve for happiness? Its answer lies in the fact that we have lost our sattva predominant nature and have become raja and tama predominant. Therefore we have lost the ability to make our resolve come true. As The Supreme God’s resolve is of the Absolute Truth (Sat), He is able to create infinite universes within a second by His resolve. Hence, the creation will become happy in proportion to the number of people who shall attain an attitude conducive to His resolve of sustenance.
F. The Yogadarshan has classified unhappiness of living organisms and its causes into four divisions, namely hey (हेय), hetu (हेतु), han (हान) and hanopay (हानोपाय). All unhappiness and object pleasure in the world should be rejected.
Hey
|
:
Worth forsaking (unhappiness and pleasure)
|
Hetu
|
:
Cause (of unhappiness)
|
Han
|
:
Destruction (of unhappiness)
|
Hanopay
|
:
Remedies to eliminate unhappiness
|
G. The entire creation has originated from the steady (samyak) word (from the Vedas). Its sustenance depends on the word and its dissolution too occurs with the word alone. As the word gradually becomes unsteady, that is as human behaviour becomes contrary to that prescribed by the Vedas, the creation too becomes likewise.
H. व्दितीयाव्दै भयं भवति । - बृहदारण्यकोपनिषद्, मंत्र ४१,
चतुर्थ ब्राह्मण, अध्याय पहिला
Meaning: Fear is generated by a foreign object. - Bruhadaranyakopanishad, mantra 41, Chaturth Brahman, chapter 1)
Explanation: In non-duality, as everything is one there is no fear.
2.4 According to the Path of Activation of Spiritual Energy (Kundaliniyoga)
Saint Shri Vasudevanand Sarasvati, in His holy text ‘Dattamahatmya’ says - Until the vital energy (pran) enters the Sushumna channel, that is until the vital energies, pran and apan achieve an equilibrium with each other and the vital energy enters the Sushumna channel from the Muladharchakra (spiritual energy centre situated at the base of the spine) till then, it may be said that the efforts of spiritual practice are in vain. The Bliss (Anand) experienced when the spiritual energy (kundalini) ascends to the Manipurchakra (spiritual energy centre situated at the level of the navel) is akin to that experienced by an ordinary person during orgasm. This itself is referred to as the peak of worldly happiness; but this Bliss (happiness) is tama predominant while the Bliss experienced in the Manipurchakra is sattva predominant.2.5 According to science of frequencies (spandanshastra)
Happiness and unhappiness depend on the frequencies generated from sensation, thought and imagination. If these frequencies match with the natural frequencies of the body, five sense organs, five motor organs, mind or intellect then happiness is generated from them. If these frequencies are incompatible, then they prove to be distressful. These frequencies vary according to the individual and change from time to time in the same individual. The soul principle or Brahman (God principle) has no frequencies. But when the knowledge of Brahman manifests through various media then frequencies of various intensities are generated. As the production of frequencies in us which are compatible with natural frequencies is less, generally unhappiness is experienced more often than happiness. The traversal from gross frequencies to subtle ones and finally to realisation of the supreme knowledge and the state of Bliss wherein all frequencies are destroyed is termed as spiritual progress. In such an evolved state, frequencies are not generated from any other sensations and the state of Bliss remains unaltered.2.6 Concept of happiness and unhappiness according to various paths of Yoga
|
Path of Devotion
(Bhaktiyoga) |
Path of
Action (Karmayoga) |
Path of
Knowledge (Dnyanyoga) |
1.
Happiness
|
Remembering
God or
pleasing Him |
Merits
|
There
is no such
thing as happiness or unhappiness. Everything is The Blissful Brahman (God principle). |
2.
Unhappiness
|
A
lower level devotee:
God is testing me by endowing me with it. A higher level devotee: Unhappiness is forgetting God |
Demerits
|
Reference:
‘Spirituality’, published by Sanatan Sanstha.
Kalpavrukshatali (Swami Muktanandanchya Sahavasat). First edition 1986. Gurudev Siddhapith, Ganeshpuri, Thane district 401206.
1. Pg. 34
Om Tat Sat
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